Orchids and forgiveness

So, Molly (my cat) has a tendency to pick the most expensive USB cords to destroy.
Usually she picks the most iPhone charging cables. I obviously get enraged especially when the count is up to seven. I lock her out of the room and try to prevent any accidents from happening but that just keeps her from being able to sleep in my bed at night.

I went to church (I’m Catholic) and the priest shared a story while explaining a bible passage. It has been 4 months and it has stuck with me, so I really want to transcribe the story and share it with you.


An old monk raised a pot of orchids, He cares about these flowers and tends to them, weeding after weeding.

Under the old monk’s care, the orchid grew to be very healthy and beautiful.

One day, the old monk was asked to speak at an event out of town and required him to be away for a few days. He entrusted the orchids to his apprentice, a young monk.

Since the young monk is very responsible, he made sure to follow the same care and routine the old monk used to care for the orchids. The orchids thrived under his care.

After watering the plant one morning, the little monk decided to keep the window open to let in some fresh air, that was when a gust of wind smashed the pot of orchids. Seeing the ruined plant in the ruined shards of the porcelain pot, the young monk was upset and terrified of the how the old monk would react.

The old monk returns after a few days and the little monk tells him about the orchids, ready to accept any punishment. The young monk was surprised to see the old man so calm after such tragic news was delivered because he knew how much the old monk cherished the orchids. Which the old monk smiled and says, “I raise orchid, not to be angry.”

Obviously, this story is applicable to every situation in our daily lives. We have no power or control over what happens to us but we have the power to decide and choose how we react. We make friends, date, own pets…these are relationships that are built by choice, we keep them in our lives because they enhance it in some way.

By choosing to react with anger, we are letting a negative energy dictate that relationship.

On that lovely note, let’s get ready to welcome the last month of 2017!

Orchids and forgiveness

Let’s Talk About Sex…

So, you know how in every group of friends there is that one person who makes everything sexual and always wants to talk about sex? Well, if you don’t, then this is why I’m here. Because I’m that friend.

I always want to know if my preferences were strange. I mean, men do some weird shit and think they’re really good and they get all into it. Naturally, making me wonder if I was weird for not enjoying some things.

Specifically, I wanted to ask about cunninglingus.

Even more specific, I wanted to know if I was just an oddball for not really enjoying tongue darting in and out of my vag.

So I created a poll.

Yes, I know each to their own…but…YOU GUYS! That’s a really overwhelming number of women who really would rather not! (I did the math, < 13% of women like it. 33/257 surveyed.)

Consider this a PSA: Don’t do it and please stop thinking that is your ultimate weapon especially if this is with someone new. Try communicating with your partner and test the waters to see if this is something they even like in the first place.

Of course, I have to be fair so I asked my fellow sisters the specific way they hold their posture when they are on top.

I have heard that men prefer it if women ride the D with their feet flat for more momentum and depth compared to kneeling but yo, let’s be real and know that you don’t feel super sexy when you are just squatting for 10 minutes.

Survey says:

Sure enough, the reason that the majority of the women prefer to kneel is that it is more comfortable.

So gents, if it really does feel better for you when your lady is bouncing, you should let her know and be understanding of the actual struggle. Don’t be disappointed when they stop and change positions midway.

Hopefully, these results will encourage more communication between both parties on how to make sex more fun and enjoyable.

 

Let’s Talk About Sex…

Shine!

I am always on the lookout for an app or product that makes me more productive – Pomodoro time clock? Yes. Water intake reminder? Check. Meditation reminder? Of course!

So what does “being productive” even mean?

To me, it means to be better and more effective.

I also love quotes and anything motivational so when I stumbled across Shine Text I was already on board.

Shine Text is an amazing company, they basically give you your daily dose of encouragement and positivity that you need. They personalize the content such as daily tips on “how to slay your day” based on your current goal.

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Every morning, Shine Text then sends you a quote along with an article and some insight on the subject.

I wanted to share Shine Text simply because we live in a world where we are constantly given opportunities to compare ourselves to those around us. Receiving this reminder helps you reset and focus on the things that really matter. Yes, you can follow @TheGoodQuote etc but not everyone is going to see the posts on Instagram 😉

 

Shine!

SHOPBOP 國外購物網站心得| How to: Shopbop (Review, #OOTD & Discount Info!)—內有跨年折扣資訊

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女生買東西最喜歡就是可以有分享戰利品的感覺。我每一次坐在電腦前面網購的時候我的FB跟Line一定都會有一大串的連結灌滿對話視窗。

先說一聲這一次的血拼是因為那時有搭配折扣活動加上要買聖誕節的禮物(「順便」買自己party的衣服)今天要分享的東西全都是在SHOPBOP購買的

上次沒有跟到的人也沒關係!12/30號會再有一波APO的活動喔~詳細活動內容我放在最下面

一共有四樣商品,連身褲挖肩長袖T是我的,文章下面有穿搭。另外的2件分別是送給媽咪的耳環以及男朋友的上衣

我之前在美國唸書的時候很多課本都在亞馬遜(Amazon)買,沒有想到卻因此什麼都在網路上買(我很懶所以連狗食和衛生紙都一起訂購~~ 哈哈!!)最後乾脆直接多付錢申請Amazon Prime。總而言之,我要說的是我真的是死忠的Amazon顧客所以當然也很支持他旗下的時尚購物網站:SHOPBOP. 所以登入/註冊的時候可以看到能夠使用Amazon的帳號哦~

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其實剛已經說到我很懶,但是我想要解釋一下為什麼:在外面買衣服因為從找尺寸、排隊試穿衣服、試穿衣服的脫跟換、排隊結賬⋯⋯所以我有的時候覺得網購在家又輕鬆加上SHOPBOP還提供免運費的服務所以如果不喜歡(不曾發生,因為所有的商品都美美的而且貨源和品質都十分讓我滿意)還可以免費寄回去!

回台灣以後,很多品牌都好貴,而且我有的時候覺得上一季打折的商品都還貴死人~~SHOPBOP的好處是不用等百貨公司或是品牌打折,隨時都可以享有台灣打完七折後的價錢哦!

我在12/16下的訂單,有一點猶疑是否美國holiday season會耽誤,沒有想到在台灣還是可以qualify滿一百美金免運費!而且你知道嗎???我3天就收到了!12/19收到耶!

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👆這個是收到的包裹!
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拆箱!

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商品拿出來後的箱子底部有放置訂購的明細以及退換貨的教學。

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這個是我訂貨的清單以及退換貨的一些常見原因。

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Arnie Jersey Polo by Marc by Marc Jacobs

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這一件是我先前提到的男生上衣!是SHOPBOP男裝網買的—-網站叫做EASTDANE但是購物車和SHOPBOP通用所以不用怕花了很多心思選好的商品不見哦!

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右上角看得到Cart(購物車)以及旁邊括號的數字,那個數字就是告訴你目前購物車裡面有幾件商品!因為是聖誕禮物所以還沒有穿搭的部分,不過有興趣的朋友可以點這裡看EASTDANE帥哥model穿給你看哦~

Alexa Romper by UNIF

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這個蕾絲好殺~(*☻-☻*)
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背面~ 右邊是加了閃光燈~

我的連身褲!網路上是這張美圖哦(◕‿◕✿):

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Prima Ballerina Top by Free People

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我很喜歡這種有小細節的簡單上衣:挖空、拼接材質、刺繡、或是一點bling bling (☆_☆)

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好了,我們看穿搭以前先看一下SHOPBOP使用方法哦!

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^ 剛剛其實一開始就已經截圖了首頁,不過再看一次吧!這裡看得到頁面上一排的商品分類,只是想要逛逛的朋友可以從What’s New開始看,而且SHOPBOP很貼心的將適合送禮的商品也都搜集在Gift這個新的類別裡面,在這佳節日子真的很方便!

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^ 綠色框框的是把頁面拉到最下面的時候會看到的一些選項!打星星的是地區(國家)選擇!

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^ 上面這一件是我有買的哦,拿他的頁面來分析一下layout。

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我把商品資料點了一下就拉開了一個很方便的尺寸表。大家可以對照來看一下!

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好了,這是目前我的購物車總攬。我的商品在兩個不同的區塊因為是男裝與女裝。

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購物車界面!在這裏如果有需要可以再次仔細的研究商品,簡易的看一下選購的商品細節。

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順便說一下Jarin的耳環是這樣子來的!這樣我送聖誕禮物就免了還要去找包裝的東西(我後來就丟在一個紙袋給我媽⋯⋯哈哈)

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這邊可以選擇運送以及關稅的部分!我是先付因為怕沒有人在家,這樣一來,付費完就可以留給管理員,準時收到包裹!不用擔心到時候新買的寶貝流浪⋯⋯

shopbop11 上面的截圖是已經輸入付款方式,這裡看的到6種SHOPBOP支援的信用卡類別。
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這個畫面要仔細看哦!確認一下資料都正確!

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如果不清楚地址的拼法或是什麼可以參考中華郵政的地址翻譯~ http://www.post.gov.tw/post/internet/Postal/index.jsp?ID=207

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Voilà! 完成了!

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這時候也透過email收到了訂單的確認!

好了教學就到此結束!不難吧~而且整個程序以及頁面都乾乾淨淨的!

台北平安夜這兩天天氣意外的好,很適合做一些穿搭的分享!

我本來在逛SHOPBOP的時候一直想要穿過膝靴子來搭配UNIF的Alexa Romper~~~可是當天的氣候和場合有點不適合所以就來一點錨釘讓這個女性味十足的連身褲比較有特色。

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這裡開始是Free People Prima Ballerina長袖上衣的穿搭!因為他們家的風格看起來非常的laidback所以一定要想辦法「撐」起來不然會像家居服。

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這邊我就趕快分享一下Shopbop跨年折扣資訊~~~

2015第一波所有折扣商品再25% OFF

12/30晚上8:30開始至1/2下午4點哦!趕快趁這個機會把坐在你購物車裡面的東西買回家吧~

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如果你有喜歡這篇How To記得跟我說哦~或是到Instagram上follow一下~或是#theroxanneloshopbop 和我分享你的戰利品!

SHOPBOP 國外購物網站心得| How to: Shopbop (Review, #OOTD & Discount Info!)—內有跨年折扣資訊